Life is uncertain and so is online dating. You can't be sure when you are going to meet your prospective partner or love while being in the cyberspace. But patience is the key to success. Believe it or not, you can enjoy the real pleasure of dating only if you have patience.
A large percentages of singles with herpes are expecting that they would get someone to chat with and have date from the very first day of joining a herpes dating site. But, after joining herpes dating sites, they found that things are not the same as they assumed them to be. It was not easy to talk to any match; the matches may ignore or decline their interest.
Patience Is The Key To Success In Online Herpes Dating-Read the Successful Story
I met someone who was HSV(-) and she accepted me as I was, but unfortunately we weren't compatible. In the back of my mind, I was concerned that we would never be able to have direct sexual contact, I was looking for something serious and long-term; I want to get married someday so that's a major variable to consider. Along with that, we were at two different places in our lives and it just didn't work out. Not willing to take the risk of getting ridiculed by someone without my condition, I joined positivesingles ( review ) I eventually found someone that really could relate with my situation. I was extremely excited. Too excited, my desire blinded me and I pushed her away. I realized this after she was already gone; too late.
There's a positive in every negative, you just have to be able to find it. In this case the positive is knowledge. I've learned how to relax about my "situation"(HSV), I'm comfortable with my circumstance and I know that there is potential for love. I've also learned that everyone woman has a unique set of needs that stem from her past experiences; before I act I need to listen and understand what those needs are. Impatience can ruin anything.
If you plant a seed and give it too much water, you can kill it. Life is like music; it's made of its silences and pause. Without silence there is nothing but noise. I'm thankful. Instead of being bitter, I'm better. Experience is the best teacher; hopefully my experience will teach you to do better as well so that you can get it the first time around.
Good luck on your journey to find treasure in the sea of love.